In order for a relationship to work you need to have a relationship with you and you need to be happy with yourself. A relationship cannot make you happy. By having a relationship with yourself and been happy with you will help you in order to make the relationship grow and go from strength to strength, it is an added dimension in your life. Do not take your partner for granted in the relationship. The ingredients to making a relationship work and last is communication, honesty, respect, trust, love, laughter, sharing, fun, never to go to bed angry and to enjoy each other. Learn from each other in order to succeed and do not try and change the person.

It’s really quite simple.  There will be lots of clues, primarily given through body language.  Don’t worry; you don’t have to get up close and check to see if their pupils are dilated.  It’s much easier than that.  The non-verbal signals are pretty much the same in both men and women.  Here’s a quick list to help you gauge the chemistry clues:

• Are they smiling at you often?
• Do they compliment you?
• Are they making lots of eye contact?
• Are they leaning towards you?
• Do they try to make contact?  Perhaps by touching your arm or putting their arm behind your back to walk you forward?
• Do they seem attentive and interested in what you are saying?  Are they nodding a lot?
• Do they make reference to doing something together in the future?

Research has found that the most common lies that can be found in a………………….

Men’s Top 10 lies

1. I didn’t have that much to drink

2. Nothing wrong. I’m fine

3. I had no signal

4. It wasn’t that expensive

5. I’m on my way

6. No, your bum doesn’t look big in that

7. I’m stuck in traffic

8. Sorry I missed your call

9. You’ve lost weight

10. It’s just what I’ve always wanted

Women’s top 10 lies

1. Nothing wrong, I’m fine

2. I don’t know where it is. I haven’t touched it

3. It wasn’t that expensive

4. I didn’t have that much to drink

5. I’ve got a headache

6. It was on the sale

7. I’m on my way

8. Oh I’ve had this for ages

9. No, I didn’t throw it away

10. It’s just what I’ve always wanted